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Hello,
I hope you are doing well. Kollace forum has got lots of individuals talking about self development and much thought manifestation of infinite potential within. I was really glad to receive such an intellectual response from members of Kollace Forum. Here is a list of a few topics that I would suggest you to take a look at.
You will definitely feel a little better after going through any of them.
How about watching yourself from a distance? You decide how far you will
put up the camera and how you will write your own story. Now imagine your life as a movie and see how great and well directed it is.

I think you must have watched ‘pursuit of happiness’ :) Well here is one
more such quest to find the true meaning of happiness. Independent opinions
expressed by members are really insightful. Here is one honest attempt to converse on ‘What makes you happy!!”

If asked – “What is life?. How will you sum it up as a lesson .. in
two-three lines? Well, everyone has their own lessons. Some write it,
express it, know it that they have one. Rest have a freight of making
himself believe that they can do this. Lessons for life. Share yours.

Did you feel restless, bored or frustrated lately? Such times do come now
and then. But they are always over as well. That is why you in your good
health reading this email at your comfort! See how you can make the most of
your life by removing negativity.
Your personality is not what others think of you, or how you show up
yourself to the world. Your personality is about how you think of yourself.
All the great men in the world know this truth. You can be what you want to
be. You only need to make a few efforts to make yourself believe it so
well. Kollace has taken a rather radical approach to implement personality
development
among masses through its programs and online media.

Have a nice day! See you around at Kollace Forums.

Kollace Education Rennaisance

General Overview

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Kollace Education Rennaisance – Self Development

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Here are the responses received…

Hans Lautrup Nørgaard

Founder at Learning Shop

I agree to some extent…Then in some cases I have knowledge my students couldn’t possibly possess, in which case they would have to listen to me in order to move on.

But I do get your point, and I have a wonderful (I think) example:

I was teaching Microsoft Office to a class at the business college where I work. At this point I had gone through Word , PPT & Excel and was about to reveal the world of databases – in this case Access – to them.

Somehow I totally failed to explain the idea of using relational databases instead of simple lists (e.g. in excel). They probably considered me a pain as I insisted they must learn and understand the use of relational databases.

Finally I gave and told them to make such & such a database as a list in Excel. I gave them 2 hours.

After 2 hours they returned and told me that it couldn’t be done. I told them, that I agreed; it couldn’t be done…in excel. That is why we have relational databases!

I now had their full attention AND motivation, and they ended up making nice little relational databases in access.

Mary Lascelles (ReloMary)

Moving Coordinator/Relocation Director at Moving Links 4 You

Some people learn by watching others make mistakes.
Some people need to make mistakes to learn.
Having spent more years on the planet than my kids, I dearly want to just tell them what’s going to work – and then – realize they’ve got to do it their way to figure things out. It sticks better. And it enriches their lives to experience things firsthand. It helps them find whatever it is – within!

JingJing Xia

Student at University of San Diego

Give a man a fish and you feed him for a day. Teach him how to fish and you feed him for a lifetime.”

On the most basic level, you can cover for a co-worker once or twice when he/she is late or you can help a homeless man by buying him lunch. But it is up for them to realize the reasons why you must be punctual or why you should educate yourself. Yes you can give them a lift some days, but it is not until they realize core reasons of a problem can they truly become better.

Essentially you cannot give a man a fish everyday, he’s got to learn how to fish himself.

Michael Peterson, PHR

Recruitment Supervisor at Sharp HealthCare

Perhaps mine is a mix of light hearted (but true) and more serious observations/quotes.

There are three people in the world that you should never argue with: people that insist their memory is perfect, people that think they are great singers (when they clearly aren’t) and people that won’t listen.

You regret the things you didn’t do much more than the things that you did.

You should study what you are interested in while in college… if you love it enough, you will find a way to make money using it and will lead a happy life. People from other fields (including your parents and friends) may dissuade you from studying it because, since they don’t have the same feelings for the field, they wouldn’t have the passion necessary to drive one to success.

Live a good life but always live to your values and not anyone else’s. Make sure the key elements of your life match your values including your family, your work and employer, your friends, etc. If something does not match enough, it might be time to move on… they will only hold you back.

A hundred years from now, it will not matter what my bank account was, the sort of house I lived in or the kind of car that I drove… but the world may be different because I was important in the life of a child.

Be the change in the world that you want to see

First give of yourself

Thanks!

Mike

Alexandra Lajoux

CKO at NACD

My paternal grandmother was fond of reminding us all that “educate” means to “bring out.”

Douglas Harper’s online etymological dictionary gives the pertinent details: “Educate: 1447, from L. educatus, pp. of educare ‘bring up, rear, educate,’ which is related to educere ‘bring out,’ from ex- ‘out” + ducere ‘to lead’ (see duke). Meaning ‘provide schooling’ is first attested 1588 in Shakespeare….”

Links:

Jeff Dyck

Founder of Our Change

“You can lead a donkey to water but you can’t make him drink.”~ A very wise man

You can teach a man to fish, but there’s always going to be one guy who hates to fish.

Sydney Morgan Diamond

CFO/Controller at Sound Answering & Business Svc (dba Sound Telecom)

My philosophy is that I can teach anyone any skill (that I know), but I cannot teach “heart” – that “heart” or desire, must come from the student.

Indira Chaudhry

Banking Professional

Teaching is a total waste if one does not wish/want to learn….or who is already learned/wise….

Here is the question that was put up at Linkedin Answers …

How come 20 years of classroom education does not ensure work to one’s liking?

In most cases… If its opposite in your case. Do let me know the factors that helped you utilize 15-20 years@school+college to its best.

FRANK FEATHER ★ “A future you can bank on”

●Business Futurist / Strategist / Ex-Banker ●Start-up / Re-invent / Turnaround CEO ●Innovation + Change ●SpeakerOne basic problem is that much of what is taught is not relevant to real life. Secondly it is taught in grossly inefficient and ineffective ways.

The era of mass education, based on the Industrial-era factory model, served us well with available resources. But it is essentially obsolete and must be replaced with individualized learning of future-relevant content.

Education needs to be mainly about where and how to find information and knowledge, not to attempt to learn it off by heart.

The future is a matter of lifelong learning or of learning a living.

The education system utterly fails to grasp this need to reinvent itself.

Raynay Valles

Strategic Marketer helping Business Owners get more customers. Author, Public SpeakerGreat question.

I have a degree in Architecture but now I spend my time helping business owners sell more and developing products.

This happened because I made a choice at 18 to major in SOMETHING. I only personally knew one person who graduated from college as I was growing up. Architecture was good to me, but marketing is the challenge I really like.

I still use creativity, I still use problem-solving, but my effectiveness can be measured – dare I say – more concretely. :-D

Bill Nigh

Information Technology and Services Professional

Part of the answer, in addition to the mass education approach already discussed, is that the “work to one’s liking” notion is at least partly dependent on how easily one is satisfied. Not everyone does or can derive pleasure, even satisfaction, from work. It’s not as if being happy at work is a God-given right (although I wish it were).

Hope this helps; just my perspective of course.

John ジョン S. Rajeski

APAC Business Development / Marketing Professional | Photographer | Global CitizenGood day Kamal,

A quote comes to mind:

“Rather than provide knowledge itself, we must encourage the joy and excitement that arise from learning.” – Tsunesaburo Makiguchi.

Regards,

John S. Rajeski

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Doreen Perri-Gynn

AVP Corporate Human Resources at Yang Ming (America)Corp

I think its because there are no guarantees in life. A lesson probably not taught in a classroom in your twenty years of schooling, or anyone else’s.

It is up to you to decide where your interests lie, find your passion and go for it. Work hard at your passion. Then, you will have work that is to your liking. It does not just happen and it is never ensured.

Richard Dodson

Professional communicator and Certified Trainer (CTT+)I am a Certified Technical Trainer (CompTIA CTT+) with 20 years of experience in the real world. I’ve done technical support, been a radio announcer, and delivered pizza. I have liked all of my jobs not because they fit my idea of the ideal job, but because I found the good aspects of all of them. And they all had downsides as well. I like the other answers that have already been given, but I have a few things to add.
1. There is no teacher like experience. It’s one thing to know about a subject academically, but knowing about it because you’ve lived it is a whole other level of understanding. Changes to the education system could help this somewhat, but no matter what you do in the classroom, it’s always going to be different in the “real world”.
2. There are *no* guarantees. Life is tough and stuff happens. Sometimes being happy is not about having what you want, but wanting what you have. And sometimes you have to “pay your dues” before you can reach for something you really like (see above about experience). But there is no combination of education, experience, and luck that will ever “ensure” work to one’s liking. Ever.

Joe McComas

Technical Support Architect First Data Merchant Services

I focused on what I liked instead of what will land me a job. This helped me to see all sides of a plan/issue/event and excel in my position over the years. I also found joy in the variety I injected into my job. My education taught me that there was no box.

Unfortunately, my focus on what I liked racked up credits but no degree. Now I’m in competition with BS/MS toting lemmings. A degree of any magnitude (albiet boxing) helps to, at least, get a new job.

sidharth rai

Intern at Reliance Capital

Probably you are right…classroom education based on the fact everyone is like ..more or less..everybody goals is same either Doctor or Engineer…So they teach with a typical methodology and ended up making a student what they want him to be….

We are also one of the victims of this…but they are not the alone culprit …may be we are also helping them..as study is the easiest thing to do and earn your livelihood….in India. (Sports too difficult i know number of people who play too good but are at nowhere…while in studies a mediocre can earn a good salary).

People who are good in other activities they need to encouraged otherwise at one point of time we won’t have anything else but engineers.

So what to be done is need funding,determination and Govt, Help to transform the way education is heading..

Jeff Dyck

Founder of Our Change

Kamal,

Great question. I could write for hours on this topic alone. I’m a young 20 something myself, that being said I think my situation is much different from that of my peers.

I believe the current educational system in the US and Canada greatly under serves the student population; especially those in high school. (grades 9-12). The educational system keeps students real personalities and talents from shinning. If a student has no interest in math or science he or she is forced to pursue that through high school vs. focusing on a trade, or business experience that would benefit that student better. The real problem is that school is not customizable for the masses.

My view is vastly different from others in my age group because of the education I was able to enjoy in high school. I probably would not have graduated (just plain board) had I not been pulled out of school.

Our family opted for a homeschool environment in which I was able to chose classes to take that were interesting (I chose a lot of biology, aeronautics, trades, business, and other things that helped ultimately shaped the person I am today.)

Schools really need this customization. They need to prepare students for life after school, and the process can’t start in university; by then it’s too late.

On another note: from an entrepreneurial standpoint. Schools in the US and Canada teach students to be employees and not business owners…There are so many students out there with so much potential. Their whole lives’ they’ve been told to become doctors or lawyers when they should become whatever makes them happy.

My two cents.
-Jeff

Jim Brennan

Senior Associate at ERI Economic Research Institute

Follow your interests. Your interests usually reflect your talents. Whatever you enjoy doing most, you usually can do best. The areas where you excel should be those where you can command the highest remuneration with the greatest personal enjoyment and intrinsic satisfaction.

Be prepared to balance the two: joy in your work and pay for your work. Be aware that the work that pays the most may be highly paid because it is onerous and distasteful, while the most pleasant jobs may pay the least because everyone wants them. There is nothing sadder than seeing someone trapped in an occupation they despise because they cannot afford to leave it to do what they really want to do. Better to be happy in your work and relatively low-paid than miserable but wealthy.

David W. Rudge

Associate Professor, Western Michigan University

I can’t help but notice that the question and a couple of the responses start with the assumption that classroom education should ensure work to one’s liking and it is a fault of the system if it does not. Most people don’t enter the educational system with a set career goal in mind, and even those that do often change their minds repeatedly over the course of 20 years. It’s a little unfair to criticize educators over the course of two decades for not efficiently streamlining your education to meet your ultimate career aims when not even you knew what they were. Beyond this, even if you do know what occupation you want to enter, you still have to deal with the fact that in a capitalist society, there is no guarantee the job of your dreams will be offered to you. The way to approach education is to think of it as a series of opportunities to grow and develop skills (reading, writing, math, science, art etc.) that have broad applications. For most of us, it is only in retrospect that we begin to recognize how the unique educational experiences we have had (inside and outside of formal educational settings) have prepared us for the job we ultimately wound up doing.

Mónica Díaz de Peralta

Author, Experienced Coach and Human Organization Developer, International Speaker and Entrepreneur.

I believe that many people view their education as a path set out by others, or by themselves trying to fulfill expectations of others, such as society, parents, spouses, friends. Classroom education in particular is dead for many, just an occupation for the first years of life before joining the labor force.

Though there can be much to say about improving the role and methods of education, the main thing is attitude towards it. When you view education as part of the continuum of life, then it is always to the best.

I believe I choose every aspect of my life from the choices available and those that I allow myself to see and explore. In that sense, I can always move close to or away from the past. I choose a line of work I love and I move to make it passionate, high quality, enjoyable and profitable.

My formal schooling left me with very much like structure of work, research skills, etc. So, though I studied computer science originally, then moved to education and then to organizational consulting I consider every aspect of my life to build on my character and learning. This is of course one way to perceive it. I find it much more useful than considering my formal training as futile. It has simply contributed to make me who I am.

You can find work you like or like the work you have. Always. No ifs ands or buts! It is a choice.


Classroom coaching for entrance exams like AIEEE, PMT, CAT, GRE etc. is very expensive. The coaching industry has grown rapidly over the past few years. However quality additions to coaching classes have been very little. Students who finally made it to the top notch institutions like IITs, IIMs, NITs etc. were not dependent on the classroom coaching but relied on techniques and approaches which suited them best. A correspondence course offers minimum advantages. However regular mocks tests ( if available) can add sufficient value. I have seen only one benefit coming from a classroom course costing as much as INR 40k – routine! You will study chapters one by one. And you will have loads of practice questions to solve. It simply doesn’t matter if you are appearing for engineering, medical or post graduate entrance exams. Techniques and approaches will be same throughout. You can resort yourself to follow yourself and study at your own. 1. There are three types of learners a. Visual b. Auditory c. Kinesthetic Know how you learn best and act accordingly. 2. What is your background? If you have been a blogger for a long time you will probably need lesser practice at RC Passages for CAT and intense practice for quantitative techniques. Approaches used by someone else may not suit you. Choose your own course of action. 3. Do you really want to prepare for this exam? Many students start preparing for engineering and medical exams just because of plain herd mentality. It is only years later that they repent for making this decision. If your interests do not intersect with those of your batch mates, you should do a thorough research to make any decision regarding your career. 4. Never, never follow money to make a decision. Salaries, placements and industry trends will only misguide you. 5. Find a mentor. Find someone who has already made it. You can easily find such people over social networking sites, blogs etc. Internet has made all this possible. Ask questions! Be inquisitive and work hard. 6. Make plans. Act on these plans. 7. Research trends in exam papers and success rates. Many entrance exams can be qualified with as little as 40 percent score. However it was always easy to score in monthly exams. What is different with this one time annual exam which has no retake? These questions should bother you.

Imagine

World Peace

Imagine there’s no Heaven
It’s easy if you try
No hell below us
Above us only sky
Imagine all the people
Living for today

Imagine there’s no countries
It isn’t hard to do
Nothing to kill or die for
And no religion too
Imagine all the people
Living life in peace

You may say that I’m a dreamer
But I’m not the only one
I hope someday you’ll join us
And the world will be as one

Imagine no possessions
I wonder if you can
No need for greed or hunger
A brotherhood of man
Imagine all the people
Sharing all the world

You may say that I’m a dreamer
But I’m not the only one
I hope someday you’ll join us
And the world will live as one